17 06, 2015

Forgiveness is not a dirty word

By |2019-11-12T10:37:57+00:00June 17th, 2015|Couples reconnecting|Comments Off on Forgiveness is not a dirty word

Many have said in jest, “forgive and forget”.  However we would not want to forget events, otherwise where is the learning? What we do want though is less negative intensity of memories that trigger us. Forgiveness is a living thing, and it’s brought alive by the intention of our will. Life wasn’t meant to be [...]

17 06, 2015

The Maths of ‘good enough’ relationships

By |2019-11-12T10:32:25+00:00June 17th, 2015|Couples reconnecting|Comments Off on The Maths of ‘good enough’ relationships

Couple relationships can be as different as the individuals who comprise them.  However there are some important ingredients to enable relationships to work well, and others to work well enough.  So what constitutes a ‘good enough’ relationship? In my research and in what clients have taught me, the ‘good enough’ relationship is one in which both [...]

17 06, 2015

Out of the Mouths of Babes

By |2019-11-12T10:38:31+00:00June 17th, 2015|Uncategorized|Comments Off on Out of the Mouths of Babes

Now that I am being delighted with the language development of my grandchildren, I am reminded of how much I have learned from my own children; to be more caring, more generous, more loving, more open, more selfless, more forgiving, more present, more real. Let me explain. One day when my younger son was 7, [...]