Many have said in jest, “forgive and forget”. However we would not want to forget events, otherwise where is the learning? What we do want though is less negative intensity of memories that trigger us. Forgiveness is a living thing, and it’s brought alive by the intention of our will. Life wasn’t meant to be [...]
Couple relationships can be as different as the individuals who comprise them. However there are some important ingredients to enable relationships to work well, and others to work well enough. So what constitutes a ‘good enough’ relationship? In my research and in what clients have taught me, the ‘good enough’ relationship is one in which both [...]
Now that I am being delighted with the language development of my grandchildren, I am reminded of how much I have learned from my own children; to be more caring, more generous, more loving, more open, more selfless, more forgiving, more present, more real. Let me explain. One day when my younger son was 7, [...]
